How to Talk Interesting

                              When you talk to people , take the most interesting topics for them to talk about. The question is : What is the most interesting topic for them in this world ?
The answer : THEMSELVES !Yes , the topic of most interest to us is the partner to talk about himself , not about what other people more about yourself .
When you talk to them about themselves , then they would be very interested and very fascinated . They will think well of you for doing this .
When you talk to people about themselves , you rubbed them the right way , you are working with human nature . When you talk to people about yourself , you rubbed them the wrong way and work against your human nature .
Get rid of these three words from your vocabulary :  " I , Me, Mine "Replace the premises three words one word , the word that is spoken by the full power of the human tongue :" You "For example , " This is for you "" You 'll be lucky if you do this "" It would be nice keluaraga you "
If you sacrifice the satisfaction you get from talking about YOURSELF , and that you get from using the word " I , Me, Mine and influence your skills and your strength will increase tremendously.Not denying it is difficult to do and requires a lot of practice , but the rewards are very comparable .Another good way to capitalize on people 's interest in themselves in a conversation is to lure them to talk about themselves . You will find that people are more likely to talk about themselves than on any topic as well . If you can direct people to talk about themselves , then they will just love you . This is done by asking questions about themselves such as :" What about your family , Mr. Reza "" What about your child's progress in the Air Force " ( if the child is a soldier AU )" Where is your daughter married the stay "" What do you think about .... " and so on .So when talking to others , talk about them and pancinglah them to talk about themselves . That's how you can be a most interesting conversationalist .Hopefully useful ....